Life is all about ....??

2 feb 2011,

.....Flashback..

when i was a kid , my parents told me to be happy that will make my life happy.

when i got an assignment in the school day's. My teacher asked me to write "what will you to do make your life happy". i wrote"feel happy" and she marked me wrong, by saying"you dint understand the question dear." quite shocked she was.

my reply was "sorry, Ma'am, i think you didn't understand the meaning of happiness yet".

the answer which i gave, long time back. now seems to be questionable to me.

Day by day we are growing, moving ahead in life, achieving the luxuries of life(god knows how many succeed nut still struggling hard to win the race of life), every body is jumping into this rat race and wants to wins this stupid race. but god knows how many feels happy in this duration.

people have got so busy in their life, and got focus towards other means of happiness,....and slowly slowly forgetting about their inner happiness.

dude!! this way its not gonna work...never..u got to be happy, feel the within happiness, start enjoying the things you have got, be happy with what you have or what you are...

but who listens to these words??? no one.. every one is busy..busy within themselves. busy in attaining the things which they think will make them happy, but they should understand that they cant be happy after that also.

day will pass, so does the years...

and this human species will be just busy in beating around the bush rather thinking about the rational truth.

i myself don't know, how many times i go through this thought, or give a thought to be "happy".. at least feel happy.

I wrote it down, cos it just raised in my mind. As i will post it , it will get publish. and the no. of times i am going to view this post at least i will get THE ANSWER to the question "how to be happy, and LIFE IS ALL ABOUT ???......

think!!!!

Profile Or MOney ???

Quite a common question , which i think revolves in every fresh graduate's mind.

Things keep on haunting like, where to go for? and what to go for?. A few fresh minds are there who are quite clear about what they have to do and where they have to run for. aah good enough for them.

But what about others, the maximum lot who just gets puzzled up between a good salary and the profile. looking at the real practical world money becomes the sweetheart and there they go. they just start running after the money, go through the work pressure, compromises with their profile.. yes with the profile ... thinking that "not a problem, i will adjust with this profile. if i can manage to qualify my exams without even studying then why not i give a try towards this thing also."

And the story picks up the speed, goes like this only ....compromises and compromises...but till when???.

Then there comes the saturation point where one feels so bugged up with the work pressure, where he is not able to sleep properly, thinking about the future only!!

And the comparison begun..this bugger has got the money , the much demanded package but still happiness is not there. and the friends who have chosen are happy this time. not because of the low salary, because of the work profile which they have got, because of the mental peace which they have got. they are happy :) ...but why not this bugger is happy..because he didn't look at the profile...just because of this only ???

He has ruined his work experience what he has earned till date. back to square ONE........now what to do..if starts with the correct choice , obviously he needs to compensate on the money, because he has to start as a fresher. got no other option left with him.

Just a lil bit of confusion and the improper guidance led him to this route.. argghhh pathetic for him. but still remember......

"BETTER LATE THAN NEVER "...life moves on and teaches u a lot :)

CONFUSED CHARACTER

Am I?? no, i am not, am i really??? i still don't think so....

Oh yeah!!!

I really feel this way. People say that you take lot of time in deciding which dress to buy. which color to go for. blah blah blah..what not..

and that resulted into making me realize that m seriously a confused character. but is it so??

I don't think so. most of the females do suffer with this.by calling females i mean the cancer females..confusion is in their blood.

but by calling cancer does really make any difference or justifies the state of confusion. god knows only..why a human go into justification of things which are not necessarily required.

so coming back to the question of confusion..everyone has got a Saviour friend. a different friend who is there to help u in coming out of the color confusion and a separate friend who is there to guide you in professional way also.

Gawd!! why so much of dependency on the friends that too for little things..can a single day will come when i be able to make my own decisions. A day when i will be able to say that" yes i want that blue color dress" and " YES!! this is what I (read loud) wanted to be"

I am just waiting for that day. i wish it should come soon till i don't see cows flying...

Amen.. :)